The Challenge

Purposeful, Productive Life Management

Life is not a chess game.  It is rather more complex. The opponent, nature, has too many moves and is constantly adjusting  at a sub microscopic level presenting new and different states with apparent abandon.  We must, therefore, be better able to anticipate nature and manage ourselves in the apparent chaos of life using reason and understanding, as the challenges of life can easily and repeatedly overcome that physical, financial, or even social attributes we may rely on otherwise.

It becomes even more complex when we consider that people will react to nature differently, and frequently will create greater confusion or turmoil than that which they were trying to tame.  They will also react to other people’s reaction or their planned methods of making their reality safer for them, often with heedless disruption to the reality of others.

What Is Your Immediate Need?

To Save a Youth from a Self-destructive Path or Influence?

Antoine de Saint-Exupery wrote, “If you want to build a ship, don’t drum up the men to gather wood, divide the work and give orders. Instead, teach them to yearn for the vast and endless sea.” You see? A person is best equipped to do their best if that is driven from within. And that is driven from within when they have the experience to feel better informed, personally capable, and proud of themselves. because they KNOW and they know how to know.

To Pull a Youth Out Of An Existential Rut?

Being in a rut is not a cause for shame.  Everyone has fallen in at some time. No one is immune.  When you are in a rut, it is so easy to look for the quickest way out that you may often be inclined to seek help to escape the conditions or suppress them.  Yet your best bet is to look inside you and find the strength to pull yourself up.  Building you is a far better solution that gives you more lasting options than is any effort to save you while leaving you just as vulnerable to the next challenge.

To Help a Youth Conquer an Addiction or Leave a Destructive Lifestyle?

An addiction or the attraction to drugs or alcohol are not a death knoll.  They are the result of your natural desire to soften life’s barbs, fill the existential void they leave,  or just havean artificial distraction when they seem too great.  It does not make you less human, but it can stop you from growing.  Then, less prepared for life’s challenges, the spurious comfort your distraction provides can be a welcome escape.  These tools lead you to build the insight so you face life with self-worth and desire, not restraint and support.

To help a Youth Curb Toxic Anger or deal with legal issues?

Do you know that, like other instinctual reactions, aggression is a necessary part of our existence? Road rage, disagreements at work or home, or an expression of frustration at a task or event may seem to be an undesirable part of your personality.  These are your brutish strengths, but you are more than that.  The human being is equipped with a more rational strength – your mental strength. If, therefore, you use natural instincts too much, does it not simply mean that you need to polish your mental strength?

To Save a Relationship, Heal a Family Conflict?

Division and discord are inevitable parts of life.  Each one of us functions with thoughts, feelings, and perceptions that are hidden within us.  Thus, no matter how much we believe we understand the other person or that they do or should understand us, we still have to interpret their expressions with our feelings and perceptions.  If, however, you manage the mental strength to see beyond your feelings and your perspective, you will be more considerate without compromising yourself in any relationship.

To help a Youth Emerge from Stress and Burnout and Manage Purposefully and Productively

The world is rough.  Roadblocks emerge anywhere, anytime. Sometimes you just want to give up. Sometimes you push yourelf too hard and seem to make no headway. Yet, the advancement is not in taming your world; it is in using your world to grow you.  These tools will show you how to refocus your measurement of progress from “without you” to “within you” and use your world as food for YOUR edudition, not stresses that derail you.  They will show you how to do it purposefully and productively.

What is your game plan?

What do you think about life?  Is it for simple Survival?  Tranquillity?  Success? Yes, that is what we all will prefer.  Yet, life has its own  ideas.  Success is always transient.  When you finish grade 1, don’t they just put you in grade 2? And this can be applied to every achievement.  There is one guarantee in life and that is death, so survival is also transient.  And as the world turns, the climates and weather will always change.  And people will always each want different things.  And each person’s interpretation of how their space should be will unsettle the ambience for another person.  So tranquillity will always be transient.  So it is easy to fall into a trap of anxiety, depression, hostility, self-doubt, and even addiction trying to hang on to these goals using means that are inherently destructive, or to fall into depression, apathy, despair when you fail.   Then, even the most knowledgeable counsellor can only give direction.  No one can go into the mind of another and reform it.  If you want to help your youth to truly examine life, purpose, personal power, you must do it intelligently… with realistic information… with guidance that is directed at building the power of the person to be the intrlligent life force they are designed to be, not just helping them to survive.

Learn how to Build a game plan of Self-Realization and Self-Actualization so they can take the ball and run with it – by themselves… for themselves, with themselves.

Know your objective

BE the

grandmaster

of your life

Like all lower life forms, every human being is born with a body that functions naturally.  We do not have to learn to beat the heart or guide the liver to function.  Unlike the lower life forms, however, we are born with a mind, a capacity for reason, but it is rudimenmtary at birth.   It is the only quality within ourselves we can build and are required to build.  And what we build belongs only to us. It is as strong as we have given it the energy to be.  Let us put our focus, therefore, on what matters – building mental strength so we can be as strong and as capable as we have given ourselves the right to be.

First, however, can we look into the underlying concern?

now, let’s look at how we can help

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