We guide you to know you. Grow you. Believe in you. and tackle life as it explodes and evolves.
The conventional route is to make your life simple, give you support for your fears and weakness because you can’t do it yourself.
But, like a plant that can use the wind, the rain, the burning sun, and the manure as food to create wonderful fruit…
We will show you how to use the challenges of nature, the impositions or disregard from others, and the fears and discomforts within as food for personal growth and satisfaction.
ou may feel you are not ready. That is okay. We will encourage you to do it slowly. We will show you how to get the insight about yourself and your world so you gradually build, restore, or strengthen your sense of confidence and energize it because you know, and know you can know.
We will definitely help you, enlighten you, empower you, because…
we see you as the essence
we do not help you get better. we show you how to be better. it is your life, not ours, that you must live. it is your vision, not ours, that you must follow.
f I were to ask you to describe yourself, you would not start by stating that you are a hairless animal that stands on two feet and has the power of speech. You would not describe your skin color, family connections, or what you own.
Instead, you will describe your personality, your attitudes and what you know or can do. That is where your power is – that invisible attribute we call the mind.
In fact, what you have, what your body has, are attributes you were given at birth. You have not improved on them. The only real improvement is in the development of your insight, understanding, and ability to think. That, therefore, is what we want to talk about, what we want to empower. And only you can empower it. That! is self-empowerment.
he invitation is to let us guide you to pull yourself up and have a sense of strength that is yours. Although many people would rather have compassion and encouragement when they feel overwhelmed by the stresses of their reality, they are more effectively equipped if they can be empowered with the personal strength of understanding and the confidence to create it … independently.
Isn’t this what any good counselor will do? When a person presents themselves to a counselor, that counsellor arrives at their conclusion by using a formula. The formula belongs to the counsellor because of his/her skill and study. The counsellor charges for his/her expertise using this formula which he/she has but the person doesn’t.
So, instead of using the formula to try to fix what we can’t see, we want to give YOU the formula so you fix what only you can see. You own the formula so you can use it anytime… whenever you feel challenged, without needing to comeback here or go to someone to do it for you. You become your own boss.
And guide you to use it effectively.
emember, a mechanic can fix your car because he can see what is wrong and has knowledge that will apply since a car is a car, is a car.
A doctor can fix your body since s/he can see inside (with instruments) and his/her knowledge of anatomy can be applied as the human body is designed similarly, one to another.
Your mind, however, is unique to you and is hidden within you. So, no one can really access what is going on within. We depend on what you reveal. And that can be determined by a myriad of factors – from your fears to your trust or your biases. And even if a counsellor can truly measure how you think and feel, the knowledge or techniques cannot be applied to anyone with accuracy. No one thinks or behaves according to ethnic, national, or even religious commonality. It always boils down to your personal experience, your value systems, and your sensitivities, factors that are hidden deep within you and accessible to only you. You just need to know how to fix them yourself!
So the best way to help you is to show you how to help yourself. After all, ONLY YOU can see inside you. All you have to learn is how to look and have the means to fix, not hide what you discover. We will give you both here.
e will show you how to appreciate and understand change as it occurs in your physical world, your body’s health, and in the private thoughts and expectations of the people you work with and live with.
We will show you how to analyze yourself, not for the pains you are experiencing, but for the deficits you can fill. We will show you how to fill them and how to believe in your ability to understand and manage.
We will show you how to immunize your selfworth to the onslaughts from a world that can be excessive in its demands, stingy in its praise.
The objective is to show you how to fill yourself more, not how to remove the emptiness. An emptiness cannot be removed; it can only be filled. Focusing on removing an emptiness only prevents you from getting what you need to fill it.