Our fireside chats take you on a simple journey. Many people will wonder how some general chats or a specific series of instruction can help when your own problem is so unique. You want and need to bond with someone who will understand your personal, private hurts, fears, uncertainties, and listen intently to your unique story. So how can chats, no matter how empowering or how comforting, help you?
It is simple. You see, everyone has their history of trauma, neglect, abuse, losses, hurts, unique and personal impositions and weakness. And the using of substances to quell these feelings may also be uniquely inspired in each person. So each person needs a kind, considerate, knowledgeable, and wise person to embrace them and make them feel that someone understands their pain. It is a pain that is hidden and also difficult to reveal so few people can understand it. Yet, here I am, inviting you to be that person for yourself – the person who can be kind, considerate, wise – even though you do not believe that from within yourself at this time. To do that, you have to be able to go behind that pain and look at something that is less dramatic. It is the hidden, suppressed, neglected, undiscovered you – your soul. We can and will help you to do that.
You see, trauma, abuse, neglect, imposition, or weakness are less important than the effect they have of minimizing the value of you – the self, the soul. So the more these are prominent, the more evident it is that the self has been cheated of that vital need to be stimulated, appreciated. You need to build that. Then the past hurts and present feelings and behaviours that result from the insecurity of the inner self will go. You no longer have to focus on removing them. The real need is identified and healed.
We are able to do that and promise you that it can be done because our focus, and yours, will be concentrated purely on the positive goal of magnifying and enhancing your strengths, not on removing the negative effect of your weakness. This allows us to stimulate, encourage, and energize you, an exercise that can be done very effectively even through a remote or audiovisual online interaction.